Wanted to share this helpful tool with anyone who needs it. A lot of people have a hard time putting their feelings into words and identifying what emotions they are feeling. This is called a feeling wheel. It can help you get to the core emotion you are experiencing and help you name each feeling when you’re overwhelmed with many emotions
this is so cool
THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT
woah. woah. woah… i totally identified with a lot of the angry emotions but i have never thought of myself as an angry person.. this is so helpful.
Anonymous asked: I would like to respectfully disagree with the notion that watching pron and being in it are the same thing it would be a double standard if a male porn star wouldn't date a girl thats been in porn but to go as far as to say a guy who watches it is wrong for not wanting to date one its the same reason we keep fantasy and reality separate, some guys want a girl whos less experienced because her needs and expectations are simpler and less likely to cheat.
Read as: Douchebags like it if a girl doesn’t know about good sex otherwise he’d actually try to, you know, please her in bed.
“The idea that sex is something a woman gives a man, and she loses something when she does that, which again for me is nonsense. I want us to raise girls differently where boys and girls start to see sexuality as something that they own, rather than something that a boy takes from a girl.”
—Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie (NPR)
if every person endeavors to make one man in their life cry every day, the world will be a better place.
Make him cry by telling him you love him more than anything. Make him cry by giving him an awesome personal gift. Make him cry by handing him his newborn child. Make him cry by asking him what’s troubling him and lending him that shoulder to CRY on.
forget it. everyone murder one man a day. i tried to be diplomatic with this shit but look at this. fucking look at this.